so...... a couple weeks ago I went over to my parent's house and my brother and his girlfriend were there... and had been staying there for a couple days... what? come to find out my brother had been fired... because they thought he'd been lying about being in the hospital which by the way wasn't a lie... they gave him the rest of the weekend off and bayli had to go take her cousin back to California. so Aaron went with her. didn't drive didn't do anything but rest like he was supposed to. this is the best part of the story... there is this manager there who has it out for him cuz he turned down her request to date her... she's fucking married. anyway, she knows that one of the other managers knows her family so she had his wife go ask where Aaron was... boom... fired... anything wrong with that? i think so... any way my mom asked me if i noticed anything different about her... she was being nice for once... I asked what was up... Mom then proceeded to tell me that her and dad had a nice long talk with them. like my dad backed my mother's motorized wheelchair up against the door and sat in it so they couldn't get out. CONFRONTATION!!! they told her that they had no problem with the fact that her and my brother were dating... in fact it was GREAT that they loved each other... what they had a problem with is how shitty she treated him... they wanted no more lies. none... and god there's a lot... no more taking his money and using it to buy herself things they didn't need.. that she needed to help him take care of himself or he was going to die. they also told them that if this little thing was going to work that they needed to help one another... otherwise it wouldn't be a fair love... she cried and promised to do better... cried in my mothers arms... MY mother... she's the last person who deserves to cry in MY MOTHER'S arms... But my mother is a much better person than i ever will be... i have my doubts as to how long bayl's promise to treat my brother better will last. did I mention that he was pissed? Never fails either... anytime someone calls her on her bull shit he puffs out his chest and thinks being a thug is being honorable and defending his girl... no... have honor when someone is telling people she's a little whore and you know beyond a reasonable doubt that she isn't... have honor when some asshole comes and cops a feel as he walks past her. be a man and defend her when she isn't doing anything wrong. don't be a thug and a bully and justify her bad behavior when you know damn well she deserves every bit of what she's getting. she needed to be called out. i'm glad it happened. because if she's going to be a part of this family she's going to need to learn to love us just like we need to learn to love her. and if she's not treating my little brother like a piece of shit on her shoe, it'll be easier for me to love her. i want this to work for him... but i don't want her telling him that money is love. working hard for your money so you can put a roof over her head and food on her plate is love. not working hard so she can have a god damn ring from Tiffany. it's a nice goal to work so she won't have to want for anything. but she needs to realize that she's fallen in love with a poor boy high school drop out. she's gonna want. and he needs to stick to his guns and be the man of the house. tell her no when she's out of line. tell her if she wants something nice to help out and save up. making your own money is so rewarding. tell her that if she really and truly loves you, to get used to the class difference. most people have no money... or very little if any. BE A FUCKING MAN for god's sake... i'm trying to figure out if i should give her another chance or not... my parents did... why is it such a hard decision then? care to help me make it?